The death of a grown child is unthinkable and yet it is a fact that so many must come to grips with. How can one cope with the pain of outliving a child when at the root of the overwhelming pain lies the conviction that you, not your child, should have died first? Consoling sections in this CareNote include: Expect slow, very slow, healing; Find support wherever you can; Claim your heritage, namely: “Keep in mind,” reminds the author, “that your son or daughter has left a heritage for you, everything his or her life meant.

8-page booklet

By Carol Luebering

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CareNotes are written for people dealing with intensely emotional situations who are looking for concise easy-to-read guidance and support. That’s why these support booklets have been designed with smaller, more manageable sections.

CareNotes, a ministry of Saint Meinrad Archabbey, are concise 5×7 booklets written to provide uplifting guidance to those who are hurting. These wellness-oriented booklets address real-life emotional, physical and spiritual needs with topics that include grief, aging, healthcare, mental wellness, family care, spiritual support and more. Whether you are dealing with difficult emotions or you minister to someone who is, you’re sure to find the topic that applies directly to your situation. The down-to-earth style of each CareNote offers relatable advice to help you heal – mind, body and spirit.

All CareNotes proceeds support the prayer and work of the monks of Saint Meinrad Archabbey. Learn more about our mission at www.saintmeinrad.org.